Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I am trying to decide whether to stay with my husband of 20 years. We have four children together, ages 4 to 13. I just am not in love with him anymore. I can honestly look at him and feel empty. When I told him this, he was devestated. He ...
A. 16 June 2010: So I spoke with a couselor today who said that divorce hurts children and unless there is abuse involved, it is better to stay in the marriage and try to work it out. She compared our lives to a ping-pong game, hitting the same ball in the same spot ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I am trying to decide whether to stay with my husband of 20 years. We have four children together, ages 4 to 13. I just am not in love with him anymore. I can honestly look at him and feel empty. When I told him this, he was devestated. He ...
A. 15 June 2010: to an anonymous female reader: Oh, no, my first love is not waiting in the wings to sweep me off my feet to a fantasy life, and I would not want to start another relationship without ending this one. My decision has to be to go on alone (which I ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I am trying to decide whether to stay with my husband of 20 years. We have four children together, ages 4 to 13. I just am not in love with him anymore. I can honestly look at him and feel empty. When I told him this, he was devestated. He ...
A. 9 June 2010: Dekten, I have always been a people pleaser and put the needs and wants of others b4 my own. And looking back on this relationship, my husband has rarely supported me or been there for me when I needed him. I just learned to live with it and ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I am trying to decide whether to stay with my husband of 20 years. We have four children together, ages 4 to 13. I just am not in love with him anymore. I can honestly look at him and feel empty. When I told him this, he was devestated. He ...
A. 9 June 2010: I have always been a people pleaser, putting others needs ahead of my own. My husband has never been supportive of me and has rarely been there for me when I needed him. In reality he had lost me a long time ago. I just stayed for the kids, ... (read in full...)
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