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39 year female, recently divorced. I have three great children who I adore. I work as an academic researcher for a University. I live in the North of England.

He won't leave me alone and it's getting to me

Q.   I have just ended a 6 month relationship with a guy. As he began to become more involved in my life, I realised that he was aggressive (even though he never actually hit me), neurotic and a martyr. I ended up feeling suffocated and controlled in an ...

A.   16 March 2010: The post below this is also my response, not sure why it didn't flag up as this.... (read in full...)

He won't leave me alone and it's getting to me

Q.   I have just ended a 6 month relationship with a guy. As he began to become more involved in my life, I realised that he was aggressive (even though he never actually hit me), neurotic and a martyr. I ended up feeling suffocated and controlled in an ...

A.   15 March 2010: No its not appropriate to say he was a martyr. He was constantly complaining about this and that, there was ALWAYS something wrong with him or with what I was doing, honestly it was draining and had a very negative impact on me.... (read in full...)

I dumped this no good for a boyfriend but why won't he get out of my head??

Q.   Hi, I posted about 6 weeks ago about this guy I had been seeing. In a nutshell, he cheated, lied and had me believe we had something special going on. I walked away and we had no communication for a month. Then he mailed me, asking me if I had a ...

A.   26 October 2008: Yep, you are both right ! Nothing like this has happened to me before, I have always dated pretty straightforward thinking guys, some have messed me around a bit and I got rid without too much pain and bother. Its as though this one has put a ... (read in full...)

How can I end it?

Q.   Ive been dating this guy for about a year on and off. We have slept together, he is 44 and I am 39, both divorced. Earlier this year I ended it because I found him on dating sites and was very upset but then I went back to him because I missed him ...

A.   10 September 2008: Hi all, update here...... i just found out today that he has been sleeping with someone else whilst he was with me and she doesn't know about me either. He is a rat, i feel so numb but now i know the truth about him. ... (read in full...)

How can I end it?

Q.   Ive been dating this guy for about a year on and off. We have slept together, he is 44 and I am 39, both divorced. Earlier this year I ended it because I found him on dating sites and was very upset but then I went back to him because I missed him ...

A.   2 September 2008: Yes, thanks, you are so right. Its just so difficult because when I am with him it all feels so right. ... (read in full...)

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