I don't just want to date my b/f I want to marry him and we keep fighting about it!
Q. Hi, I'm in a pickle! I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He is Egyptian Muslim and I am British Muslim revert (but I don't wear hijab or anything). We've been together for 2.5 years. The last year has been horrific!! His mum and sisters apparent...
A. 4 January 2012: Thank you all for your responses. They were really helpful and honest at a stressful time. I am going to give him a couple of months to do his thinking and I will try during this time to calm down and stop nagging as you advised. I have restarted my ... (read in full...)
Shall I initiate another 'where is this going conversation' and if he is not budging then accept that the relationship has no future and split with him or do I wait until he brings it up?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm 28 and in an intercultural, inter-racial relationship with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. He is Egyptian muslim (33 years old) and I am white British liberal muslim. We're both doctors. I've not met his siblings (2 sisters) except ...
A. 1 January 2012: Hi everyone, on re-reading this I feel so pathetic. Can you believe I'm still in the same situation?? It was nye last night and I spent most of it crying bc of my frustration with the situation we are in. And once again I have stopped taking my pill ... (read in full...)
Shall I initiate another 'where is this going conversation' and if he is not budging then accept that the relationship has no future and split with him or do I wait until he brings it up?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm 28 and in an intercultural, inter-racial relationship with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. He is Egyptian muslim (33 years old) and I am white British liberal muslim. We're both doctors. I've not met his siblings (2 sisters) except ...
A. 26 September 2011: Hi everyone, Thanks so much for all of your answers. They have been very helpful. We went away this weekend and I decided that we needed to have the talk. He seemed to not have thought about our dilemma at all since our last talk so I got ang... (read in full...)
Was I being childish and selfish over this situation? And how to deal with our opposing families?
Q. Hi everyone, Just wondering what your thoughts are on this – I’m in a 2 year relationship with a 32 year old Muslim man from a country outside mine. I am 26 and a white Muslim convert (I don’t wear hijab but I do believe in the principl...
A. 28 March 2011: Should I tell him that I'm totally fed up of this situation and that I need to meet his mum as soon as possible so that we can move on together or apart... or shall I wait? Am I being impatient?... (read in full...)
Am I pushing him away by asking about marriage every couple of months?
Q. Hi everyone, Just wondering what your opinions are on my current predicament. Thank you in advance for reading and advising. I'm 27, my boyfriend is 32. When we began dating 2 years ago we were clear that we didn't want to date for long as we'd...
A. 16 March 2011: Thank you so much to everyone who has replied. I didn't make it clear in my summary that I am White british and from a rather dysfunctional uneducated family whereas my boyfriend is Egyptian and from a very close-knit family of professors! His ... (read in full...)
Should I force an issue just to be near him for a week?
Q. Hi, I’m a doctor and I need to locum to make extra money at present. Is it too forceful to arrange a locum shift for an entire week at my boyfriend’s hospital (and by default move in for the week) just to be near to him? I could locum anywhere...
A. 9 July 2010: Hi,
So I asked him whether it was OK that I had booked these locums and he said that it was fine but he felt I had been too pushy in my manner and why couldn't I locum elsewhere?
This wasn't exactly the response I expected or wanted!!
I ha... (read in full...)
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