bisexuality

mystify, posted over a year ago

so.... bisexual is a hard thing to be , any comments? any advice?

Posted on 29 March 2006 @ 19:29 (London time) - permalink
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willywombat, posted over a year ago

I can honestly say I don't think it's hard. You ahve so MANY more people to pick your life partner from. Turn heterosexual and you halve your chances. If you catch my drift.

Posted on 30 March 2006 @ 14:33 (London time) - permalink
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Sexybum, posted over a year ago

I think it would be hard to be bi, imagine having to cope with a man AND a women!?!?

Posted on 30 March 2006 @ 15:55 (London time) - permalink
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willywombat, posted over a year ago

hehehe

Posted on 30 March 2006 @ 17:5 (London time) - permalink
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mystify, posted over a year ago

my best friend is bisexual and wants to sttle down and have kids, prob is when she is with woman she misses having a man and vise versa. can aqnyone share advice or experiences?

Posted on 4 April 2006 @ 17:57 (London time) - permalink
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chachacha, posted over a year ago

bisexual means that you can be sexually attracted to either men or women.

people often think it means that, for example, you live with a man and have an on-the-side relationship with a woman - that is a non monogamous person and the same troubles would follow as if your friend had a hetresexual affair while married

you have to make choices in life, and to choose one thing always means giving up another - just like picking your food in a restaurant - here, once you have picked, you should get the same dish until you split up

Posted on 16 April 2006 @ 22:19 (London time) - permalink
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Danielle934, posted over a year ago

That is right... you do have to choose. My sister is bisexual and has had the same boyfriend for 5 years without cheating... sure she finds woman attractive and misses being with one. It is similar to being in a relationship with a man and missing that certain feature your past guy had, you just have to decide if it is worth it. I think it is kinda greedy for a bisexual to want both, dont get me wrong I do think it is ok to be attracted to both sexes, but I think when it comes down to it you have to make a choice, like your friend who wants to settle down and have kids... she just has to ask herself if she would rather settle down and have kids, or would she rather not give up women. It would be wrong for her to have kids and cheat on her husband with a woman (even if he was ok with it). Something like that could cause years of therapy for a kid so she has to be certain it is what she wants and know that if given the opportunity to have an affair with a woman she would be abel to turn it down... not because she dosent want to, but because she is doing it for her children

Posted on 17 April 2006 @ 2:13 (London time) - permalink
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PrunellaGringepith, posted over a year ago

Maybe your friend needs to look into alternative lifestyles, such as polyamorous relationships.

Try suggesting a book such as:

Polyamory : The New Love Without Limits Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships

or:

The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

By Dossie Easton

Both of these book provide the prectical details of being in loving, alternative style relationships with more that one partner.

Posted on 18 April 2006 @ 20:33 (London time) - permalink
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cuninglingwist, posted over a year ago

my experience with a bif were great as long as your honest with each other and willing to share because the other girl becomes your friend too!comes over, they go shopping together, cook in the kitchen together, hug and kiss,spend quiet time together,yes they love the guy that understands this,

problem is most men become intimidated and call it cheating, but cheating is lieing and deception we never had that,then she found a guy and got married and we went to the wedding. I find honest openminded bifemales are much more honest in their everyday life than closedminded straits who hide their real sensual feelings due to fear and their own embarressment.

Posted on 6 September 2007 @ 3:27 (London time) - permalink
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