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twinkletoes30twinkletoes30, posted over a year ago

Im totally lost. My loving, gorgous partner of 4 years has just told me he didn't see a future for us anymore. Out of the blue. Last week, we finally found a site to build our home on. 3 months ago, we discussed getting engaged. All his initiation. Now, he's sleeping in the spare room, and we are "FRIENDS". He says there is no one else (and i believe him, he can't lie) but that he has doubts about our future. He loves me, but can't see himself settled down with me. He says he's attracted to me, but we don't have enough in common any more. He works really long hours at the moment, cos as a builder, he has to talk work when he can. In the past 6 months, we have probably seen each other for 2 hours every evenin before bed. Usually spend Sundays together. Im totally lost. What do I do? Does anyone think that its stress, exhaustion or whatever, and that if we take a break, and be jst friends, that he will realise how great our relationship was, and give it another go?? Im shell shocked, and can't stop crying. I can't eat, sleep or think straight.

Posted on 25 May 2008 @ 18:10 (London time) - permalink
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pepper27pepper27, posted over a year ago

Hi Hunny

You need to post this on the main page sweetheart as it will get you more advice there, As more people will see it, I will give you a link for your self esteem love as that can take a nose dive when this happens....I think you need a break hunny from all this stress and then see what happens as it not doing you any good at all......

http://www.womensselfesteem.com/index.html

I would leave the house or ask him to leave hunny so you have time to think and not worry about him being there, You need your space now to come to terms with all of this...Write this back in on the main page love and more people will help, I hope things work out for you love TAKE CARE WITH HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Posted on 25 May 2008 @ 20:17 (London time) - permalink
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twinkletoes30twinkletoes30, posted over a year ago

thanks for the kind words... will post it to the main page. he just admitted that he didnt think watching me go into our bedroom alone would be so awful. He hugged me, and said he was going to visit a GP on Friday, hes scared himself. Thanks for the link also.

Posted on 25 May 2008 @ 21:20 (London time) - permalink
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