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While drunk, I asked my ex's ex-bf about their sex life and he told her what I said. Now she's mad at me! What should I do?

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Question - (8 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2007)
A male United Kingdom, * Waited For The One writes:

Saturday night i went out with my ex girlfriend's older brother as a lad's night out (3 Lads Went Out)

that night my ex girlfriend went out down town where me and her brother was. i had a good night got drunk and then my problem started.

i saw this lad who i knew my ex had dated before me. they call him akie.

my ex told me all the way throw our r-ship he could ever make her cum whilie going down on her. so i always said 2 my ex i always wanted to ask him y.

that night i walked up 2 this lad

said this.

me = your akie right?

Akie = Yeah your cheryl's ex right?

me = Yeah she dumped me

me = y did u let a sexy girl like that go?

akie = don't know shit happens

me = always wanted to ask u y could u never make her cum whilie u went down on her?

akie = what that's bullshit i always made her cum she's a lieing bitch.

i shaked is hand and he walked away

the day after my ex txt me saying akie had gone 2 her and said all these nasty thing's about me and my ex still sleeping together and stuff. i just turned around and said " that lier next time i see him i will butt him " she was like " no your not! "

and then she said 2 me when i rang to explan " you hurt is feeling's " y sould she care about an ex's feeling's he cheated on her so many time's

she told me if i ever talk 2 1 of her mate's about her again she doesn't wanna be a friend of mine no more.

the question is how did my ex hear him in a club? the music was so loud i couldn't even hear myself think. and i told him all that about 2am the club closed at 3am so in an hour he told her over loud music he's putting her on the VIP gold card service there.

she told me not 2 mess around with her friend's again.

what sould i do?

2 me it seems like she care's more about this lad then me and where friend's that still r sleeping with each over. as fun she's talking of cummin up today or tomoz just 2 see me.

what sould i do?

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A female reader, Lilly223 United States +, writes (8 January 2007):

Lilly223 agony auntIt doesn't really matter if she likes this lad more than you... although I doubt it. Right now she basically thinks you are more of an idiot than him. Nice move guy. First, her past sex life is really none of your business unless SHE tells you, so going up to her ex and having the nads to ask him about it was your first boneheaded manuvuer. Your second bone headed manuvuer was getting pissed when he called you on it, and told her about it. Why would he keep this a secret... talk about male drunken posturing. Next time drink less, think more about what you are doing, and grow up in the mean time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007):

I think you are absaloutly right to think that she has stronger feelings for this other guy.

I do think that you are letting this situation get out of hand she is quite clearly using you for her own advantage but doesnt value your oppinion on anything.

Next time you see her you should brake this thing you have going off and tell her you dont want to see her anymore.

You need to move on and find somebody who does listen to what you say, however difficult it is for you to brake of you have to do it.

And if you cant do it face to face just send her a text im sure she will get the message.

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