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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I always hear about "amazing pleasure" when it comes to clitoral stimulation but when I touch myself I feel it but i don't get any pleasure. The stimulation is actually uncomfortable for me and I don't understand. My significant other said there must be something wrong with me. Is there? We've tried everything! Reply to this Question
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reader, katiekate +, writes (23 July 2012):
 It sounds weird, but try holding your breath when you do it. I am only capable of reaching clitoral climax when I hold my breath. Weird, but true!
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reader, Deagan +, writes (23 July 2012):
 While I agree with person12345, I think you need to be mentally ready to be able to experience pleasure. It's possible you don't have that "need" or "drive" yet. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. There is no set age as to when you should start feeling the desire to pleasure yourself.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 July 2012):
 No nothing is wrong. You just need to figure out how you like to be touched still. Some women don't like to actually touch the clitoris at all, they need more indirect stimulation because it's too sensitive. Not everyone enjoys just rubbing it with their fingers. Just keep trying different things and if something hurts or is uncomfortable, try something else!
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