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writes: I've been going out with a girl about a year. I love her. alot. We started having sex after 8 months, it was the first time for both of us. But we havent had sex in the last two months, and while at first I was ok with this, I think subconsciously I'm starting to feel frustrated. She said that she feels I get annoyed with her more easily and more often. What should I do/say?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (5 December 2009):
 Why did it stop?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): I think you should tell her about ur frustration and that because you haven't had sex, it doesn't mean that you don't love her you're just feeling different about it explain to her what truly started it and why you feel that way, just talk to her about it and if she loves you as much as you think and she says she does then she will understand and try to work it out with you but if seh doesn't then that means she truly doesn't want you okay.Also another idea could be that maybe u feel frustrated because it's her, the only one you've had for a long time and maybe it's time for something new but i prefer to believe that you love her and seh loves you and you both are meant for each other and Since you guys have been together so long and it's still there then that means that there is chemistry and where there is chemistry there is a solution.
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reader, Ace2442 +, writes (5 December 2009):
Aha i tottaly understand. Well the only thing you can do is be perfectly honnest with her, and tell her you would like to start haveing sex again, and if she pulls the whole are relationships not just about sex etcetc just tell her you know that and you love her that why you enjoy being intamint with her so mutch...i have no idea if this will help XD
but just be honnest it is key to any relationship
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