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writes:I have been seperated from my ex for over 5 years, for some reason he still is on my mind and i have moved on as has he but i constantly see look-a-likes and i have had boyfriends since him, what can i do to get him out of my thoughts which i do not think of him voluntairly it is rather involuntary...signed help
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reader, baby blue fairy  +, writes (23 February 2007):
maybe you are not as over him as you thought even though 5 years is a l o n g time ! why dont you meet up i meen they do say true love never dies! but if you dont want this keep trying to move on in todays world if you have loved before you will love again and it is possible boys are not the world try hangin out with your m8s i find that always helps me best of luck ! and remember that this boy may be feeling the same only one way to find out n the other had take my other advice ya girlfriends are for life boys wel lets just say that to them we (girls) are like a CHAPTER in a book and to us they are the BOOK the whole book and trust me they are the best read ever!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Subconsciously you must be thinking of him and aren't even aware of it. It could be a song you hear in the background that triggers your brain off or a saying you hear that he uses. The more you think about this the more it will lie in your subconscious and you'll start dreaming of him too. Maybe deep down you enjoyed what you had with him and wished it could be like that again, not particularly with him but with a special someone. You might be feeling lonely deep inside and wish you could find the closeness again with someone else and your thoughts drift into your relationship with him.
Try and keep yourself busy, the more you think about this problem the less chance it has of disappearing because you're too aware of it! So what if you think of him, it's okay to do that. Tell yourself you WANT to think of him and you'll find he won't come up as often, it's called reverse psychology. I wouldn't worry too much about it, the thoughts disappear in time.
Eve
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