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writes:I REALLY need your help on this. Ok so the thing is that whenever my GF and some of our friends hang out i feel totally ignored by her. It's happened a couple of times already. So we're just hanging out and then I'm just sitting alone or something so maybe she'll go over but she just looks over and does nothing. She just goes with her girl friends and it somewhat annoys me because we barely get to see each other and sometimes when we do and other friends are there she'll do that. I've told her about it before and she said she didn't really mean to and that she would try not to do it again but yet she did. This time it really sucked. She came over finally after our friends noticed how i was and told her to go I guess. I don't like that sometimes she only goes after her friends tell her. When she was there I was trying to think of something to say to her but I couldn't without letting it all out, and not because I was mad, which I wasn't. After a while she just said "I'm sorry" and left. Some 20 minutes passed and i just stayed there alone sitting down and she was with her friends and after she was going to leave she just went and said "I'm really sorry. I'm leaving now." I don't know what to do about that anymore. I know if I tell her she'll say that she's really sorry and doesn't mean to do that and that she won't do it again but I don't know what to believe know or what to do about that. Reply to this Question
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reader, adamskidude  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 She probably only said that because its the easiest answer to give. Try what she suggested and if there is no positive result, i vote bail out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way, she said that the only reason she did that was because i was always doing something else instead of going to her. I know that whenever her friends go there she will go with them for a large amount of time. I really dont like that, she says that if i really want to be with her to just go up to her and tell her when shes with them, but i think that will mak eme seem like i dont want her to talkto them at all. I just dont want that when shes with me and they get there to not go with them most of the time, she gets to see them everyday since they go to the same school and we dont get to be together very often since we go to different schools.
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (10 October 2009):
She's either uncomfortable showing her affection publicly,or she's not really that interested in you.Either way you need to confront her on it, there's no point in being scared of your partner because you cant be with someone who you cant talk to. It's unhealthykthxbai
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