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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:why do relationships have to be so damn complicated?ok here's the story, I've been together with my gf for about 10 months, barely seen her during that time. She puts most of her enery in her school work (studying for nurse) I try to understand that, but I feel like I don't matter to her anymore, every time I see her she's too tired, so when I try to kiss or hug her she pushes me away cause she's not in the mood. Hurts me inside but I never tell her that, of course then when she notices my sad face then she does want to kiss/hug.When we go out together, when I haven't seen her for at least a week, she spends more time socializing with my friends then being by my side.Lately we don't even french kiss anymore, I should point out we haven't had sex yet, so french kissing was the closest I got. I feel like she's pulling away.It's been like this for a while, I've been struggling with the decision whether to end the relationship or not, we have been together once before but only for a few months, I was hoping this time would be better but it's the other way around. I really don't wanna hurt her, I love her, but I'm not getting much out of this relationship. another fact, I often wonder if other people have encountered this before, we never talk about our relationship, when we do it's about the fact she never has time for us, but I quit talking about it, because I hate fighting, there are so many things I would like to talk about but I'm afraid. Sex is one thing, I don't even know if she's a virgin or not. I tell myself that I have to talk to her about these things, but whenever I see her again I clam up. The weird thing is I have no problem talking about these things to my (female) friends, they tell me: that's because your not in love with us.I don't know what to do, I'm desperate for some advice.
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