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writes: I'm a young girl and I have a friend. He has not seen me and he says he likes me. We always chat, but suddenly his friend tells me that he is a cheat and his friend says he liks me.I asked someone and the person said he was a cheat. I asked someone else and the person tells me he's not. And he says he loves me and I also love him.His cousin connected us. I have seen him but he has not seen me. What do I do? Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2006): Are you for real? You haven't seen each other but claim to be in love? O...kay whatever
Anyway, best to find out for yourself. Evryone has some opinion of someone they know and their thoughts are biased due to it. Take it slowly and find out yourself
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reader, stina  +, writes (6 July 2006):
 I've found that it's better to get the story from the person rather than others. (You have to consider their intentions of telling you this and also how they know.) That doesn't necessarily mean that by asking him if he's a cheat or not, that he will admit it right away. I suggest you get to know him better and have a friendship first - then you can get to know him and figure out who he really is. Plus is you're that blunt right away, it may offend him or scare him off b/c he may see there are already trust issues. Just take things slow. There's no need to rush into a relationship...or rush away from one.
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