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anonymous
writes: i was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months, we were bestest friends, im 16 hes 17. my mum would pick him up from college, and hed be there when i got home from school, i stayed at his house every weekend, and in the holidays everynight, i was close to his family and he was close to mine. we did everything together,until one day we had a big argument and he said he has had enough, he collected his things from mine the next day, and we ended on really bad terms. we havent spoken for over 3 months, and hes currently seeing one of my friends. i do have a boyfriend but it is nothing serious or intense. the reason me and my ex dont speak is because he chooses not to. he is the one who ended it with me and ive let him carry on with his life and ive carried on with mine. although i think about him every single day. i just wanted to know can he be 100% over me and is there a chance at all he misses me and we could get back together in the future.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (6 March 2006):
He has moved on and you should too. You are both young, it may happen again for you in the furture but for the time being he ahs made his wishes and feelings perfectly clear.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (6 March 2006):
There is a chance that you could be back together in the future. Its all about timing, and being at the right point in your lives.
But would you want someone back who jumped right in to another relationship with one of your friends? He abandoned you after an argument, and chose not to speak with you again. Definetely not relationship material.
Most likely he is over you, because its obvious he only cares about fulfilling his own needs. When things weren't running smoothly with you, he vanished. I'm sure as soon as he has a blow-out with his current girl, she will be history too.
So dont take it personal, consider the source. He truly is lucky that you want anymore to do with him.
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