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We don't want to have sex yet but she wants to enjoy dirty phone calls with me!

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Question - (19 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2006)
A , anonymous writes:

me and my girlfriend want sex but not yet as she is a bit uneasy with it. that's fine with me. were both virgins. she wants to enjoy a dirty chat on the phone.

that's fine with me if it helps her. have you got any ideas of what really turns on girls? what can i say? any ideas what we both could try? we both 18.

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A female reader, xLEAHx United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2006):

xLEAHx agony auntHi There,

Dirty chat (phone sex) is very normal and common, it could be a bit hard for you both seeing as your both virgins and do not really know how it feels to have sex..as phone sex is describing what people would like to do to eachother sexualy and they can imagine how it feels, and at the same time there mastabating..thats what people get off on..people who have phone sex normally mastabate..you could try it with your g/friend so that she mastabates too and then she'l be able to get a feel for her body and knows what turns her on,also if you and your g/friend have had oral sex maybe describe to eachother how it was and how good it felt and visualise whilst mastabating..

xLEAHx

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A female reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (19 October 2006):

ButterflyonFire agony auntI was never good at phone sex.. But, I'll try to help you out. It's called phone sex, because your spose to be having sex over the phone.

So, describe to her in detail what "your doing to her". Like say.. your both laying in bed talking on the phone, you say.. "I wish I was there with you." ask her if she like to know what you'd do to her.. "I'd kiss you hard, swirling my tounge around your sweet mouth."

"Close your eyes and imagine me moving down from your mouth to your breast... to your stomach.."

Add your own details. Make it hot and senual. I was never good at it, but I write erotica. lol Hope that helps, I won't write anymore or you'll be callin her up and reading it to her. =P

~Jamie

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