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We broke up after 2 years he said he was too young, but we are still in contact, he needed space, but now I dont know where I stand

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Question - (9 June 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

please really really need advice!!!!!!!!!

hello i have wriiten before about this but i am still very confused and its not getting any clearer.

Basically about a week and a half ago my fiancee of 2yrs broke things off saying he was too young to be in a relationship but he loves me and cares a great deal about be. i suggested maybe we spent some time dating and getting to know ourselves a bit more as well as each other. th this he said he wasnt sure but he would think about it.

i have had no definate answer from him he told me 3 days ago maybe he would come see me tomorrow (sat) just to hang out and have a chat but have not heard from him yet.

many of my friends think i should prepare for the worst and just move on however his brother who he is extremely close suggested i give him lots of space and time and he may change his mind.

this is the man i love i cant express it enough it sounds pathetic but he is my soulmate and he used to say the same about me. i think he is just having a freak out because of stress eg work money and it got to much but cant be sure he will come back. he isnt ready to talk yet.

what should i do? please really need him greatful for any and all suggestions

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A female reader, matron +, writes (9 June 2006):

matron agony auntHi, i think his brothers advice is the way to go, give him some space to sort out what it is he wants. It may have developed through stress, he may feel pressured in all parts of his life and think that to escape from his routine of the last couple of years will help clear his mind and ease the tension. If you love him the way you say you do tell him but add that you want to give him space and that you are there if he needs you, as hard as it will be, dont contact him for a few days then just text to say hello and hope he's ok kind of text. If its meant to be he'll be back, who knows after a while apart you may feel differently about him but whatever happens let him sort this out himself,dont add any more pressure. i realise you must be hurt and confused but my guess is so is he. Be strong and good luck x

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A female reader, sibaan +, writes (9 June 2006):

sibaan agony auntgive him space but hold onto your memories because theyll help you get through his 'space time'.

your fiance is obviously at a cross roads in his life and he doesnt know if he is ready for life right now, it happens a lot with guys.

just follow your heart on this one and remember when you dare to love you dare to hurt....

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