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reader, kizzynae  +, writes (1 July 2010):
kizzynae is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks.......:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): That is a good question, its not a good idea to be unfaithful to ur lover, also you must ask your self if ur ready to make that commitment with someone. I addvise that you both talk to ur current partners before being together. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Questions like this from kids at such a young age scare me.. they really do.. not a good feeling at all O.o
Sorry- to answer your question- NO. Please. Do not do it. Just read all these answers closely and even if you don't fully understand- just DON'T DO IT, trust us all. We are all older than you and have much more experience- just trust us and DO NOT DO IT. Just tell the guy 'no'. Easy as that. :) And if he keeps pestering you- stop texting him back/stop talking to him. You do not have to talk to him or anything at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Holeey crap here's what you've gotta do. : tell him to go and find some cheap bitch then he will get this blow job. I'm 14 too aand trust me you've got a bf he has a gf and WTF he's just asking so he can be " entertained" by someone cheaap.
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reader, butterfly123 +, writes (28 June 2010):
sweetheart at 14 you shouldnt be giving blowjobs anyway but the real deal is that if you do this you will be betraying two people at the same time. Tell him to quit disrespecting you in that way and to go blow himself!!!
Please dont give your self respect and dignity away to this jerk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): do you want a reputation as 'easy'? you're way too young. And you're in a relationship. So two reasons not to. Plus at that age, and when u have a boyfriend, u will be known as a skank and other guys will ask you for the same things. If you cant be faithful, be single. And grow up a bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): No way the only person you should be doing that to is ur boyfriend and the other guy asked you cause his gf doesn't want to give one and he obviously sees you as an easy target. Do you want to be called a cheating slag? If so do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): No don't do it, then tell his gf and your bf about it because maybe they have some class unlike you two cheaters
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Hiya id be a bit insulted if someone knew i had a boyfriend but they still asked me to give them a bj. Id wonder if they thought i was easy or something. Say...No chance, pal! And be glad your boyfriend isnt like him. You will find some boys go around being cheeky and asking girls for things like that. It doesnt mean they really like you or anything. They are just trying their luck for a cheap thrill. And usually its the cheap girls that say yes. Dont be tempted sweety. Because afterwards when you see him cuddled up with his girlfriend or whispering to his mates, you will feel bad about what you did and start to worry about people finding. And lets face it, this boy is letting his girlfriend down and doesnt care. So he wont care about blabbing to everyone afterwards and letting you down too. Just tell him no x
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (28 June 2010):
 My dear girl, you're only fourteen! Why are you even thinking about this? Just say NO.
At your age and in your situation (of already being in a relationship, you should definitely not contemplate this act at all!
Wait till you're 21 and single and then give as many casual BJ's as you like (I know I do).
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): first off i think ur to young and hes just using u it doesnt matter how long u kne him and plus that would make u a cheater so if i was u i would tell him stright up NO!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): slap him on the face and say no
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Do not do it, he is just dehumanizing you, besides that you're too young to have to even think of doing anything sexual to anyone be a strong woman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): NOOOOO...Dont do it. The aunts have given you lots of reason why you shouldnt and not one why you should. You dont want to be known as the girl who will. And yes, he WILL tell. They all do. Mal
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Please do not cheat on your bf.
How would you feel if a girl gave your bf a blowjob.?
Plus think about this guy's girlfriend. How would she feel?
No good comes from cheating and it just causes pain and you lose respect!
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (28 June 2010):
 At 14, you are entirely too young to be thinking about putting someone's penis in your mouth. Sorry to be so crass, but that's what it is. Do you think this guy is going to respect you if you do this? you're going to get a bad reputation behind all of this craziness and your boyfriend will dump you once he finds out.
Don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Also age in our society really has no meaning anymore in other words kids around our age dont care and they'll make the decisions they want to no matter wat age
so weather your 27 or 14 the choice is really only up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): let me just tell you im 15 and i experienced the same thing a year ago at your age. im not trying to sound like a parent when i tell you this but nothing good comes from giving a guy a bj in less of course your with that person and you KNOW you can trust them with that kind of decision. Ill give you the rude awakening if the warning didnt help: spring break of last year was the first time i gave head. i was drunk and one thing led to another.I shed my innocent look and started playing the role of what i thought was a women. I was so wrapped up in the attention that i did it again but this time to another guy in a bathroom how pathetic am i. The attention was less positive but dont get me wrong i didnt do it for the attention i did it because i liked the feeling of guys wanting me but really all they wanted was my mouth. I did it again one night drunk..again. and that night,although i didnt know at first but i had made one of the worst decisions of my life.Everyone knew. Everyone was talking about it and calling me a bop behind my back im lucky enough to have had 3 REAL bestfriends who stuck by my side. Today that image is gone but not forgotten. i live a happy life today and i havent gaven head since that night. ive been asked for it but im smarter now and ive grown from it.
and dont believe a guy when he tells you "nobodies gonna kno" because someway somehow someone will find out and all it takes is one person to tell another until it turns into a big bomb that blows up in your face
My advice is to stay with your bf and i hope you make the right decision
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reader, NoBabyYes21 +, writes (28 June 2010):
 how would you feel if you found out your boyfriend got a blowjob from some other girl that youve never met? Hed probably feel the same way.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Why would you do this if you have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.
Its still cheating, and he will just be using you, mouth or vagina, it makes no difference, he is not interested in you as a person, just a convienient receptacle, tell him to go find a knothole in a tree and use that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Ok look. DONT DO THIS. If you really care for your boyfriend then you will tell this kid no and walk away. It may only be a bj but its still considered cheating nonetheless. I would suggest to stop talking to this man about this. Heck you have a boyfriend and youre too young! Besides, what would happen if your boyfriend found out about this if you did it? Please stay true to the one you love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Eww... Okay sorry
I say NO because
1. You're both cheating
2. You're too young!!!
3. And he prolly doesn't like you he's just trying to take advantage of you.
4. He wants pleasure, not you! Sorry...
So yeah.. NO!!
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