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female
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30-35,
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writes:what is wrong with my family.. we are all so different! i'm quiet and keep in all my feelings and hide my emotionsmy mum is VERY loud, outgoing, chatty and ALWAYS wants her own way and if she doesnt get it then there is HUGE fights in our house and shes ALWAYS right nomatter what anybody says or thinks and nobody is allowed their opinion.my 10-year-old sister is a menace!!! she does things that really annoy me.. i'd ask her were are you going today then? and she would start screaming and say will you stop hitting me !!!!-- she does it on purpose to wake the baby and for me to get shouted at.. lol shes a retard. and for my stepdad.. he's a taxi driver and comes in from work .. wakes up the next morning and sits on his fat ass all day and tells me and my younger sister what to do. Last week he even sat on the sofa, and called my younger sister from down the stairs to get the remote control from the sofa facing himHe is soo LAZY! and can't do anything for himself!!he annoys me soo much and he even said to my younger sister earlier ...right get your gear ready, were going swimmingthen she said.. today? but my gear isn't ready yetthen he said.. go fkn rope yourself with your gearHe has some extreme anger issues and throws his weight around TOO much.i love him to bits he just controls everyone like puppets!i dont know what to do!!!He Just treats us like slavessssssssss !!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): hello sister, welcome to the world of " PEOPLE WANTING TO HAVE POWER OVER OTHER PEOPLE" thats it.. so easy is it?.. i have that problem ALL MY LIFE'' and i tell you what, you are powerless.. you can not do anything about it.. the only way is to RUN" get out off there..RUN AWAY AS FAR AS YOU CAN" and make it fast as you can.., find your own peace of mind and soul before its too late.. but i should not forget youre still young, thats the only problem, so what about take a little patient until you got your wings and then GO.... but if you can do it now, if you have other relatives to help you" then thats the sign to get out of there.. good luck dear and take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Hi
A lot of families are like this, quite hectic like you say you all have different personalities and often this is why clashes happen. There will be good days and bad, try not to let it frustrate you too much, hard as this is. Maybe if you feel tension happening in the home you could go for a walk or go to your room for a little peace. It's not worth the arguments trying to get your point across with some people,they never listen. Good luck!
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