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Should I tell her that I love her and risk losing her friendship?

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Question - (20 January 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2012)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am in love with my classmate-cum-friend, she thinks me as her brother, but i love her the most, we are not in blood relation, i am very afraid to say my feelings to her that she would leave me and i don't want that. i want to make her realize that i am in love with her, but not in a brotherly way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2012):

Don't tell her now but take time and convince her later however, you need to ask her "not to call me brother but a freind" if she accept you won, otherwise forget everything and be a good brother

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2012):

Tom Obler  agony auntHello,

What I would say is that if you do ask and she says, "No, friends only." Don't hang around for ages and hope she will change her mind. Accept whatever decision she makes as final. Ok, see how you get on and let's hope this works for you. Please let us know how you get on and we'll be happy to help further. Good luck.

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