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*abygirl99
writes:I meet this guy about two weeks ago . Of course sparks are in the air everything is peaches in cream . Their are somethings that I don't like about him and I hav told him. He drinks and smoke ! Which is a negative because I do no such thing and have told him . He wants a relationship and I don't I told him it takes time to get to no someone I just don't jump into relationships and his not trying to hear that . Another problem is I do work alot I have two jobs and his always complaining that I work to much . I told him if ge doesn't like my work schedule he can always help with my bills ! I don't think his a keeper but I'm trying to open up and date ! What should I do !
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Everything is peaches and cream, is it? Sounds as if the cream may have gone sour.......Don't let "sparks" blind you to the things you don't like about this man. What you should do is seriously reconsider continuing with him. If you can't accept his drinking and smoking and not being will to take time to get to know you, if you continue much longer, you might well come to resent these things. Still, it's your call to decide whether to end it now, or hang in a little longer and see if he "comes around"....
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reader, Wise Woman of the Forest  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 He sounds like the type that would try to keep you away from the world. I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with drinking and smoking as a lot of decent blokes do it.Perhaps try talking to an ex of his to find out what he's like in a relationship, but don't approach her like that's all you're after as she could go back to the man himself and he could blow. If you don't want a relationship, why not see him? Give him a try out period and if you don't like what you see, tell him it's not right. If he gets violent on the booze, DON'T go with him. Alcohol is one of the main leaders of domestic violence and you don't want to get into a relationship where he drinks away your money (:
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