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anonymous
writes:i go on a holiday each year, were each year you see the same people each year and become close for the week there. This year I found myself by the last night getting close to one guy, he spent a lot of time over me and made it very romantic- going down to the beach and looking up at the stars etc. However before the holiday i had had a rubbish time in relationships so didnt wont to take it too fast on one night. When I got home, we stay in touch vey closely (texting from 8pm till 3am etc), he even called me up in a concert. However there was still insertantly in my mind as he was going to go to university which would take me 4 hours to get too! He went to uni and we didnt talk quite as much, but he and i were still keen to meet up again. However either of us found time, and after 4 mounts apart his phone broke and he hasnt texted or called since, and its not 4 and a half mounths apart.Do i beleive his phone is broke and he has no other way of talking to me?should i still be hung up on him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): Its been 4 weeks since we talked, he doesnt have my email and i dont have fb.
People have told me he never uses his phone and by the looks of it i was the only one he used it for really.
Also he lives in the middle of no where so he wouldnt be able to get his ipone repaired as there is no apple shops any where remotly near him. So there fore even if he was to have got a replacement phone he wouldnt have my number. However im just assuming its broke as the last time we talked it was just turning off randomly and he was just like "yeah i think its about to die lol"
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reader, lija30  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Sweetie, his cell isnt broken or nothing he has another relationship going on. If you feel it then believe it...never ignore your gut feeling. Ask your friends they probably been hinting to you he is a dog for months but you don't listen right?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (4 January 2011):
 There are other ways of getting in touch, and I highly doubt anyone his age would go 4 months without getting a replacement. Sorry to say it, but I think it's safe to assume he's just not interested any more.
How did you find out his phone had broken, anyway? Did he tell you?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 January 2011):
 So how long has it been since he's talked to you? 4 months? Do you really believe that a person is going to let there cell phone stay broke for 4 months?
There's cell phone insurance that covers that. If not, I'm sure he would pay out of pocket for a new one. (Or at least his parents would)
If he's not making any effort to keep up the contact, via cell phone, internet, or making a trip to see you, then I would move on.
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