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age
30-35,
*nfinishedSymphony
writes:I'm usually a confident borderling over confident lass. However, I have very deep rooted morals that somewhat are the major cause to this matter. Additionally being a girl, I do tend to prefer the whole "i'm laid back so i'll wait for you to ask me out" approach. I've been exhaustingly single for the past half a year or so, fully content one could say but wanting to revisit the world of long term relationships. My mum on the other hand, has been busily yapping on to this young gentlemen at her work about me...At first I was rather outraged (she has the cheek to reveal personal info about me at the drop of a hat to some randomer at her work geeez). OK. But then I saw him. WOW. OH WOW. From that day on, I do believe in love at first sight. Everything about him was screaming wow, he was almost shining infact.Oh god im too cringeworthy for my liking! Like I said to begin with..the chance of me asking him out is very very slim. He happens to be completely shy at first to, but not with my mum because she knows him now. Should i get hooked up with him via my mum lol....or grow some balls for once and do the hard grafting work of asking him out myself? I think i'm too laid back in my approach to everything.....I just hate missed opportunities.
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reader, nickie123  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 well if he is de kinda of guy dat iz shy welllyea i think ask him out but dont do it hey chu want to go out just say dat chu need help in something if we kan go out and talk bout it and den he'lll get used to being wit chu along and he wont b scared i been through the same hing girl so i know it willl work i hope if he actually have feelings 4 chu :) hope i helped
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reader, Aech135 +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Go ask him yourself. He's shy and will appreciate you taking some of the uncomfortable part of the beginning of a relationship off his shoulders. If the relationship works out and you end up get engaged when your ready he's going to have to ask that, which is probably the most nervous a guy will ever be in his life, so why not give him a break for now with this one little question.
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reader, planepocket +, writes (9 January 2009):
Go for it.
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