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writes:I met this girl in my college 3 months ago in Canada. She now travels to Japan and study. But we still ongoing keep in touch. We wrote email for each other everyday. We have great conversation. We get along very well. We share a lot common. And I think I really like her.August 2009, she will be back from Japan. I want to tell her how much i feel about her and take the next step in relationship. I don't want to give her a shock since she thinks we are "just friends". Reply to this Question
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Id let her come to you. if she 'thinks' you are "just friends" and you want more do things a little extra for her, eventually she will realize you like her more than friends even if you don't say anything, she will know. believe me mate!
Organize some really cool things to do and a really nice present for when she comes back just for you and her. You've seemed to have built a really good friendship and this is the start of a very successful relationship.
Eventually there's a very good chance everything will fall into place, she will wonder why you haven't asked her out and I hope you will pick up on these signals when it happens. The eye contact and your kiss will be the start. be patient and enjoy the suspense and excitement right now she's coming back soon.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 You should start letting her know by dropping some hints about taking her out on a date when she gets back, things like that. But, hopefully you havent waited too long. You may be in that permanent friend catagory.
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