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She loves me and doesn't want to hurt him (boyfriend)!

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Question - (7 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2012)
A male India age 30-35, *thz writes:

I dont understand what it is like..

She loves me but she says she doesn't want to hurt his bf.. Shes confused.. but today his bf came to know that she talks to me..So its like everything is shattered right now!

I was talking to her n we both were crying bitterly..

She said shes in a big dilemma and doesn't know what to do! She said that shes confused so she said that shes going to leave both of us! But then later we talked on phone and she was crying bitterly and said she doesn't understand what to do..? Shes not able to decide!

Even i don't understand what to do and tell her what she should do.. For the time being I told her to stop and give herself a moment to think about all this..

But on the other side what am I supposed to do and whats better for her to do? Im really tensed.. helppp..

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2012):

EbonyBlossom agony auntI thinkyou need to point out to her that by carrying on like this all three of you are suffering. If she leaves him, he will be upset at first, but will then have a chance to find a better relationship so it works out better for everyone.

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A male reader, Athz India +, writes (7 December 2012):

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Athz agony auntwell thanks for ur answer.. but will you help me by telling that what should tell her in a convincing that she should do as you just said?

thanx.. :)

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2012):

EbonyBlossom agony auntI can understand her frustration, as Ive been there myself. But if she doesnt love him, then she shouldnt stay with him, Not only because shes not truly happy but also shes making you unhappy and shes giving her boyfriend false hope and preventing him from finding someone who will love him. So she should come clean and leave him for you.

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