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writes: dear cupidI am at the moment confused, I was going out with a girl for one week where she dumped me and said she still has feeling for her ex, tell my mates that she won't go back to me... girls do you think if I talk to her when college opens properly she might reconsider and give me a second chance, because at the moment she's all I can think about and sometimes tears come down my eyes.Please help me as to what I should do and if I do stand a second chance with her?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (18 February 2008):
My brother i don't know how old you are but i can assume you are not yet 21yrs.Welcome to the crazy world of girls/women.They'll mess up your life if you are always into them like that.You need to take it easy and be strong.You are lucky she told you after 1 week some may have never told you but would have been cheating behind your back with her ex.Believe me,you'll manage without her,though it seems so hard right now.I also have sadly tell you that you don't stand a chance with her and even if she comes back to you,she'll only make you cry more.Focus on other girls and show her that you can live without her.You'll meet some nice girl soon but stop crying 1st!
Take care.
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reader, bemused  +, writes (18 February 2008):
 Hi hun
I hate say it but....is that not just life!! You are in good company as this has happend to most of us. She obviously made an impression on you and she sounds like a decent person in that she leveled with you early on instead of playing you. Is there anyone else you might have your eye on? Laura 1318 puts forth some good strategies for moving on. Do not sit and dwell on this too much hun..it is big world out there..get on out there and see what or who comes your way. She may come back but you should be in a position of strength if she does. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): To be honest, I don't think you have another chance with you. But it could be worse, you only went out with her for a week. You should be pleased that she told you so soon, it's much better than lying to you and waiting for a few weeks to tell you. It's hard getting over an ex, so she probably just needs time. Give her some space, and maybe in the future she might get back with you. But for now, it doesn't look like it's giong to happen.. I'm sorry, but try not to be upset. There really is many other fish in the sea. Mail me if you need me. Good luck with everything :]
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 February 2008):
 Sorry , you do not stand a chance. Your name is not inscribed in her heart. Don't waste your time and resources on her.
You can stand by the sidelines until she loses all hope of getting back with the ex .
You can only be friends with her for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): At least she was honest with you when she said she still has feelings for her ex. I think it would have been worse if she broke up with you for no reason what so ever and then you heard that it as cos she had feelings for her ex. I would give her some space and time to sort out her own head and feelings first. Don't go chasing after, begging her to come back to you as most girls don't like men like that.
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