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She cares for me but wants to be in other relationships. I don't get it

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Question - (28 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *avid50584 writes:

Me and my girlfriend (both in our 20s)of 9 months have recently split up. We had an amazing relationship, we never argued we are very close and we always got along really well, you could see that we were best friends aswell as boyfriend and girlfriend. Then out of the blue she split up with me saying even though she loves me and wants to be with me she feels as though she cant be because of the way she feels and it wont work between us. The problem is even though what she feels for me she also feels that she wants to be in other relationships, which to me makes no sense. Why would she want to be and whats so important about it? she dated guys before me but im her first proper relationship but to me what does it matter, its how you feel for that person that matters not what number relationship they are. Am i wrong? and is she confused? some great advice would be appreciated. Thank you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010):

she prob has other reasons that she's just not sharing with u. You just need to accept her decision and try to move on. Don't spend too much time on trying to figure it out. Us woman are too complicated

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