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writes:hi ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, i recently had a smear test done ive had urine tests before and nothing showed at all but now I have clymedia and i have no idea on how im going to tell this to him, i have no idea where i got it from! ive only been with him but may have picked it up from a previous partner but i never slept with anyone for about 8 months so how was this not seen before ansd how do i explain that to him, thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): Hey so something similar happened to me with herpes. I found out I had it and I freaked out. My boyfriend was the only guy I had ever been with and I knew it had to have come from him. I think I made the right choice. I told him about it, without accusing him of anything and told him what it meant about our sex life and about what we would need to do for it. He took it really well and supported me through the whole thing. Tell him. You'll both be better off for it. And if he has it he needs to find out. I'm sure he won't be angry. Good luck!
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 Yeah, it's not a choice... it's a responsibility. You must tell him.
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reader, loraemoon +, writes (15 July 2010):
 you may of had it a while and not really know, but on the other hand you could of caught it from him sorry to say it , has he been faithfull to you, but before all that you need to really sit down and explain things to him and tell him you have been faithfull and he will understand
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 July 2010):
There is only one way. That's to come out with it. You can't hint or anything like that. You need to sit him down and be honest. I'm sorry, but there is no other way. And he needs to know, because he probably has it and it could make him infertile. I'm afraid the only way to say it is to say you've been tested and it's showed up positive. Hopefully, he'll see past the emotions and just get tested.
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