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Online romance and fake pictures?

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Question - (16 September 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and my boyfriend started dating online

we've been together for 2 months now and he has

faked many pics, i have asked him before if he was lying to me but he has said that his friends just put them

on the internet.

how do i know if he's lying to me or not?

i really need help.):

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A female reader, FluffyPie United States +, writes (18 September 2010):

FluffyPie agony auntThis guy could be anything - ugly, handicapped, mentally unbalanced, pedophile, rapist, pimp, ANYTHING. And he's just having fun with you. Online relationships are meant to fail sooner or later, because nothing compares to the real thing - a real kiss, a touch, a hug etc. Plus, the internet is not the best way to talk about serious stuff. Think if it: you say "I love you" and he says it back, with one hand he's nose picking or scratching his balls. Or maybe he's watching a movie and he's not in the mood for romantic chit-chat so you tell him how much you miss him and all he can do is giving you a smile or send you a "I'm busy" message. It's complicated.

Anyway, point is: this guy is just filling his time having fun with you and you're wasting your time with him, instead of focusing on your school and other priorities in your life.

If he's starting this relationship by distorting reality with fake pics, go figure what he can say when you ask him where he's been and who he's been with. It really ain't worth it. You're young and easily influenced. Don't let yourself mislead by a bored freelance women-pick-up.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (16 September 2010):

GrimmReality agony auntThe fact of the matter, young lady is that online dating is a minefield at best. The person behind that screen can be anyone, can be anything. Then you get sucked into what they tell you, as you can only take them at face value. and then you begin to find out little lies. well Little lies always are in lieu of big lies so your best bet is to date someone you can see, touch and look into their eyes in a real world setting.

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A female reader, brittanymichelle1993 United States +, writes (16 September 2010):

brittanymichelle1993 agony auntLook darling, online relationships are always dangerous. And if you REALLY know him than you can make that decision by yourself. But since he is faking the pictures you don't know how many other girls he's trying to work by doing the same thing to them. 2 months is nothing when it comes to creeps online. You need to go and talk to the police and let them know exactly what's going on and what you want to know about him. Cause he might be the guy he says he is, or he might be this 55 year old child molester. You never know. As long as you don't give him your personal information then you're safe. But if I found that out, I would quit talking to him, and tell him to try and ruin someone else's life. Cause my attention is elsewhere.

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (16 September 2010):

TimmD agony auntHave you ever met him yet in person or has this "relationship" strictly been online?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2010):

You know he's lying. He's sent you fake pictures, and that's big enough for you to know that he's a liar. Because now you don't know whether he's in his 40's and is trying to groom you. He sounds like a total creep, and you would be much safer walking away. I don't accept that those pictures were put on there by his friends. He's a liar and is pretty creepy. Every sign points to you cutting contact.

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