| A
age
26-29,
*
writes: How do you get over a broken heart? 'Cause right now... mine is shattered! The guy i loved, just wanted me to give him oral sex... again... i admit i did it only once though, but then all he wanted to do was get me in the sheets. He said we were dating, then after he asks me to sneak over he says we aren't. I'm crushed... :(What should i do?
View related questions:
crush, oral sex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, SillyB  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 Thats why before you're 18 do not do anything sexual with a guy. Once an adult, wait at least 6 months before you do anything sexual with a guy - this helps weed out the ones who are around only for sex and the ones who like you for you. I wait 6 months and have not been hurt. Once I waited 5 weeks and was used. So take this as a learning experience, grow from it and never make the same mistake! xoxo
A
female
reader, Traycie +, writes (12 July 2010):
You are hurting and you are mad and upset and angry and confused and it sucks to feel that way but you will get over it. It might not be today or tomorrow but you will. Next time you find a guy and he only wants to use you as his little toy tell the jerk to kick rocks because you're not going to tolerate and put up with that because you deserve better
...............................
A
female
reader, cindy 15  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 your young in around the same age as u it might hurt now but u will find someone who love U not just for sex get over this huy he obviously is a closed minded person you deserve way better and you can do better your young live life now and find someone better who u deserve.you will get ova him in a flash sooner then u think. you will realise there are way more out there and a guy out there 4 u chin up
good luck !!!!!
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): You are better off without him. Maybe give it more time with the next boy you get friendly with, instead of getting into sex when you don't even know what the relationship is. You are very young to be getting into sex anyway, it's having sex without the rest of a relationship and without the depth that breaks your heart.
...............................
A
female
reader, pookie2011 +, writes (12 July 2010):
well the way i see it, he was only with you for sex, i know its hard to get over a guy, but you have to realize that there are other men out there who will love you for who you are and not only want sex. Some guys are like that and the dont want a relationship, but you will find someone for you. Just get over the guy who hurt you and realize there is better out there for you.
...............................
|
