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writes:I met my guy friend a year ago but we have become good friends a few months ago. He isn't in love with me.He loves me as a friend and lust for my body. He touched me a lot like touching my hair,my back,playing footsie with me,asked me whether I loved him sexually....etc...He told me he loved my hair.Once he even put my hair into his mouth and bit it! He said,"the smell of your hair is even better than your cooking".He even told me he would lose me and I would remember him if he got drunk.Yes,he's horny.I know there's nothing wrong with that. It's the actions that count and not what one thinks...but I just want to help him get over his sexual feelings for me because we are friends. Friendship and lust cannot coexist..but he's acting on his sexual feelings! I think this is inappropriate.What should I do now? Should I talk to him about this? Would it be very awkward and ruin our friendship? Or just pretend that nothing has happened? Should I send him an email and tell him what I think?He's 19 and I'm 23.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your reply:-)
If he wants both friendship and sex,then what should I do?
Should I talk to him face-to-face(It'd be very awkward)? Or just send him an email or letter?
When I express with him,should I just say it bluntly like "I know you're sexually attracted to me,but this is inappropriate....blah blah blah"? Or should I beat around the bush?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): If you want to be a good friend than you can be as sister also and express once with him by saying our relationship is like brother & sister and I want you to be like brother that's it nothing will happen, if he wants true friendship he will continue and if he wants your body he will leave easily and don't worry it will be good teaching to a bad thinking guy
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