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writes:Hey um I'm 20 years old my fiance is 17. I was her first + vice versa. We are very much in love, getting married next year, but our (ok, my) problem is that she REALLY wants a baby.I want one too and now is not a bad time, but I hear its very painful/stressful. I don't want MY baby girl to be hurting. This question's for both genders:Ladies would it hurt her?And guys does it hurt watchin ur girl suffer?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): Hey, thanks for all the answers. I really appeciate it!
I suppose she'll get her own way (as always). Anyway, thanks guys and girls!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 January 2009):
Yes it's going to hurt, but the baby is worth it in the end for most women.
You should definitely wait till after you get married and have been married for at least a year to have a baby. You need to make sure you can deal with a LOT of stress before you take on a child.
Having a young baby while you are at such a young age is one of the hardest things to cope with in the world.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): You Guys Have a very Healthy Realationship & All Thee Pain Will Be Worth It When YOUR child Comes Along... I Hear Its thee Best feeling Ever . =) & Its Gonna Have To Happen Someday If not With You With Another /3 Sorry to Say
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (24 January 2009):
 First of all, wait a little while? Why are you in such a rush?
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (24 January 2009):
 well i am pregnant, due march 2nd, and in all honesty it is very interesting to have this baby grow in me, it feels weird. There are some painful moments with cramps, but i hear in the end it is worth it. Labor/birth will be extreamly painful! but i mean, try shoving something the size of a watermelon out something the opening of a lemon.. it will be painful, but its worth it, i will be able to tell you after my baby is born, but i hear that after you go through it, the feeling of holding that baby is no comparason, and its worth it.
If you really dont want her to have a baby, try adoption, sadly i am sure there are plenty of children that need homes.
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