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writes:My ex girlfriend dumped me many times. She told me she will back with me again so she will never dump me again because she want to take time. Few days later then she asked me to back with her i was like sure! i am back with her again. I asked her if she will dump me again then she said No!She will never leave me and dump me again she told me that she love me very much! Next Day so she dumped me again because she want me to lost pound. She hate my little fat body. She told me that She would back with me if i lost weight. she told me she still love me. She wanted be my friend. I accpet be friend with her but i hate be friend with her because i am heartbroken many times I love her very much!She talked some other guys so i told her that i talked to some other girls too she got mad at me and cussed me out is she jealous or what? We are just friends i am very confused about herShe dumped me many times! I am tired of it.Do i have to find another girl or what?what suppose she mean to me? help
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reader, TheGodWars  +, writes (25 August 2010):
Yeah i would leave her if i was you, be nice about it but also tell the truth your sick of her treating you like this dumping you all the time, no one is worth the pain and hardship beleive me, and also as the realist said lose weight only for yourself not for anyone, if someone loves you truly they won't care how you look dress act or your weight shouldn't matter.
If you show her you can live without her, she might end up realising in the end what she has lost, she might realise omg i love that guy and he's not desperate as i thought and i can no longer control him and stuff, so it might make her want you more if you finish with her, i don't know if you have coz it's been a few months but stop contact altogether with her for about a month then speak to her just as friends and act happy without her.
she may come running after you, if you do this,
Hope this helps "TheGodWars"
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reader, The Realist +, writes (15 April 2010):
 It sounds like she just wants to control you as much as she can. Cut all contact with this one then go out and find yourself a girl who actually wants to be with you for who you are. She wants you to be there to be used when she needs you and nothing else. If you get her out of your life now you will be the one who comes out on top and she'll realize that you don't need her at all. I'm not saying it will be easy but the longer you are with her the more chances at finding actual love will pass you by.
Also if you are going to lose weight do it for yourself, the person you are with should never say they'll get back together with you if you lose the weight. They should be there through the whole process for support.
Best of luck to you.
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