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writes:Feeling absolutly devasted and dont know what to do.A guy ive liked for a long time has gotten another girl pregnant. He says he likes me and hasd done all alone, that if he'd known how i felt he would have been with me. I just feel too upset to even cry. If he was just dating another girl then i could handle that knowing maybe he could be mine in future but now he has another woman pregnant i know theres absolutly no hope at all.How do i overcome this? Ive know him a good few years and has a strong crush on him more or less from day one.
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reader, cmarieky  +, writes (4 April 2012):
Consider yourself lucky. Stick around be his friend only and check out how devoted he is to providing for his child emotionally and financially. This just may be your lucky escape bc if he show no regard for the child then he would have shown no regard for the child the two of you would have possibly conceived. Wait this one out to see how he treats this situation. You may end up crying tears of joy.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 April 2012):
 He's a crush... not a boyfriend...
you see him through crush eyes which are rose colored at the worst... he's not everything you think he is... trust me on this one
as for being a father.. if after I divorced my first husband men thought they had no hope of being with me I'd be a very lonely woman... just because a person has a child with someone else does not make them unavailable.
OTOH dear one, he got a woman he's not serious with pregnant.... that shows lack of thought and respect... (on both parts btw not just his)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 April 2012):
 Let him down of the pedestal you put him on. And realize that there are guy out there who are way better and way better suited for you.
His loss, honey.
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