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30-35,
*.a.r.ah_
writes:I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him.He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it.Then after i texed him and told him i knew and he asked who said it, and stuff, and thats when he said its not what i think.Ive been texting him and telling him to come over to talk and stuff but he keeps like avoiding me.What should i do?
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Well, if there's a "situation" that needs explaining, I guess you have your answer...
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reader, s.a.r.ah_ +, writes (14 December 2009):
s.a.r.ah_ is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlastnight, he told me that hes been really busy viseting his mom like full time. I know its not entirly true.
But, he said he wants to meet up tonight because he doesnt wanna explain the situation through texting.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (14 December 2009):
He is lying to you. If the rumors weren't true, he wouldn't be avoiding you. He says "it's not what you think" but he won't give you an explanation. Move on. You're too young to feel like you're falling apart behind some jackass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): "It not what you think"- yeah, one of my best freinds husbands used that when she caught him on a couch screwing his assistant- he was still inside her at the time...
Some guys use this phrase like a comma... it's a pause while they try to figure out a better lie. If you want 100% proof, or want to assist the woman he's going to be close to foe th next 21 years- get some DNA from something of his and get a DNA test. Then the 3 of you will know the truth and he can pick all his crap up out of your front yard, which is where you should be throwing it...
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reader, jasmin nisar  +, writes (13 December 2009):
 u dont know the ins and outs u just heard rumours hun what u have done by askin him 2 come over an talk is the right step forward u do need to talk to him first an find out whats been going on if u think he maybe lieing or cheating on u without even talking to him 1st then im afraid theres no point in staying together u need trust in a relationship 4 it 2 go anywhere if u havent got that then theres no point only u can really decide whats best 4u after u find out the truth
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 December 2009):
I entirely agree with the other post. You think you will fall apart without this guy? He is a liar, and a cheat. It is what you think, so dump him and find someone who won't hurt you.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (13 December 2009):
It all depends on whether the girl got pregnant before you or after you had started seeing him.
just send him a text saying people make mistakes and if he comes clean with you then you can work with him but if he doesnt then you will never forgive him. Tell him to only reply when he has thought carefully about his answer.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (13 December 2009):
 Dump him, he's a lier and a cheater and he's not worth it.
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