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writes:Hi, i recently found out that my boyfriend of a few years has been sending emails to other women telling them he loves them! We split up but have decided to try again, but i dont know if i can trust him anymore. Theres a weird atmosphere, but i dont know if its all in my head or not. I'm so confused, and dont know what to do! Please can anyone offer me some advice????
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reader, elsie +, writes (17 May 2007):
 sounds like this weird atmosphere is probably more likely to be your gut feeling telling you to get rid of this guy!he sounds like a fool.how can he email women telling them he loved them?very sad.what was it all about?did he meet any of them?are you 100%sure he only emailed them?even so sounds to me like hes a bit of an oddball.dont think i could give a guy a second chance after that.also you said other women,ones bad enough but he had to email several?looks like if he hasnt already it wont be long before he starts a full blown affair?sorry if i sound harsh just an outsider looking in.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (17 May 2007):
 I will address the feelings you have to him.
"We split up but have decided to try again".
This means that you are so much in love with him.
Looking for his reasons would be digging in the past.
Focus on the present: building trust takes some time.
You ask: "i dont know if its all in my head or not"
My answer is YES; otherwise you wouldn't try again.
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