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writes:Hello. Ok, for the last 2 weeks I have liked a girl that works in a pharmacy nearby my house. I am really bad at conversations and every time I try to talk to her when checking out, I end up looking like a completely and total idiot. Most of the time, nothing comes out when I try to talk to her.I Am Really Bad With Girls, Would Be An Understatement.Yesterday, I finally got the nerve to ask her out. I tried to be friendly, But I greatly failed. She replied back with "Maybe", "Let Me Think About It".At this point, I need advise on what to do. I have a past I am not proud of that I'm trying to keep in the past, and I've been trying really hard to get away from. I'm sick of playing all these games.I am not sure if this is her way of saying "No" in a mild way, or if she is just pulling my string because she knows that this will bother me.Does anyone have any suggestions on what she might mean by, "Maybe", And "Let Me Think About It"?Also, If I choose to go back and talk to her about this, How long of a time period should I let her think about it?Or should I just let this go, and not go back at all?Sorry, I'm a big mess, and I have NO clue what I am doing.Please help if you can. Thank you. =-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTell her the truth about my nervousness and ask for her phone number. Maybe that is what she was trying to hint.
It's weird. Asking her out doesn't make me uncomfortable, but asking for her phone number does.
But, main point, Thanks again. =-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis has been very helpful. I really appreciate the time you put into the answer, it was really informative, and gave a lot of the tips I needed.
Thank you very much for taking the time to reply. =-)
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