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writes: i hate the people hurt me and every day i get sadder and sader and more unhappy no body cares about me home.i have be going counsellors since i could read,i have been bulled,attack,called names, rejected,ingorned,even stacked,no body cares abut me at home and how unhappy.i have no job i applied for few jobs but got none,i have no real money i am in my 30s still living at home.i have no friends to turn to when i am upset,guys have rejected me all my life.people arien,t nice to me.i find hard to talk to people.i also have insulted,i never even got my 1st boyfriend and i never got my 1st kiss,i am also over weight,short and ugly,i have no intertsed in any thing any more i just don,t care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): i am irish
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reader, Polaroid93  +, writes (17 April 2010):
Try to wake up one day and have a fresh start! Make it this Monday! Join clubs and meet friends! I know it's easier said than done. Maybe take up running for your appearance worries as excersise makes people feel happy! Good luck I really hope things work out for x
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reader, deisy  +, writes (17 April 2010):
Well first of all u have it in ur head that ur ugly and all this neg stuff. Get a closer relationship with god cause all thing are possible with god in ur life. U can't just sit at home and do nothing and expect things to change without u making a effort! So keep ur chin up and start turning ur life around and once u work ull meet new friends!! Take one day at a time honey! God bless you;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): sweetheart you sound depressed, have you seen a doctor?sadly you make your own music is life, so sometimes you have to take your life in your own hands...right here some ways you could start...I dont know where you live, but if you live in the UK or America NO ONE CAN GET A JOB at the moment, so you have a few options a. you could joina college course and get some qualifications in pretty much anything, call your local college and ask and if you on benefits its normally free, if you dont fancy that how about doing some voultary work, I bet helping other people and being valued for that work would make your self estemm swore!! you have the internet so look on oultary jobs in your areaNow I am not sure if you are as fat and ugly as you say...most people are beautiful in some way, but if you are overweight then start walking...seriously even if its just 10 minutes round the block...not only wll it give you breathing space from your parents but the walking will help you lose weight and realise those happy endofins!!Lastly try the church (you dont have to be religous) any good church will let you join and just enjoy the togetherness of it all...without ramming a bible down your neck...I didnt believe in god and wnt to church and sat at the back and cried and cried for about 3 weeks (cause of mariage problem)the vicar and the others involve you as much or as little as you want...but the bottom line is they are 99% of the time good people whocould help you!Good luck, honestly pick yourself up dust ypurself off and you will find life can and will get better!!good luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (17 April 2010):
 Are you still seeing a counselor? If I told you that you have better potential stored inside you, that what you described, what would you say? If I told you that you can turn all this around, and begin working on areas of your life, and taking steps toward being who I believe you can be, would you take the steps to get there? If you are willing to put in the effort, I'll be willing to develop a plan for your transition, but it's you who has to desire change and is willing to take the steps to make it happen. I can provide information and direction, but if you read and ignore, my words would have no meaning. Shoot me an email, and let me know if you are willing to let go of misery and begin living.
Take care.
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