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writes:I have always had a great relationship with my 18 year old daughter. But lately |I feel liek I dont even know her any more. She started dating Jason about 6 months ago, he seem like a good kid but something just doesnt seem right with him. He almost seems to perfect. Its like he has something to hide. He is a good student , plays rugby, has aprt time job andmy husband thinks I am crazy to question him but I have a gut feeling something is off. Every time I see him with my daughter I get this uneasy feeling. He always has his hands on her and will give me this little "she's mine" smile. How can I find out more about their relationship with out looking like I am over reacting? Reply to this Question
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 you need to recognise your daughter is changing she is growing into her own being, becoming her own person and making her own decisions.
even if your gut feeling about her bf is right you cannot interfere now, because your daughter has to learn from the experience herself.
you can only keep an eye on whats happening to her daily and be there for her this is all you can do.
good luck!
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 please dont be one of those mothers who pries into their childrens relationships.. trust me my mum did it to me and i still resent her for it, i cannot forgive her, she screwed things up for me and for no reason.
If your daughter is making a mistake, you intervening is NOT going to stop her. what are you going to do? say oh i think something up with your bf.. she will be like um so? she not going to break up with him, she will probably just be mad at you for it. you cant stop her from making any mistakes, let her live and learn
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