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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello. Well, i need help to get my life going. I have hardly any friends and spend most of my time alone in my flat. I've never had a girlfriend (yeah I'm a virgin as well) and in mid-twenties it don't seem right to be this way. I just want life to be exciting. I've never had a real social life and when i hear people talking about an amazing night out i often wonder what that means. I dont think ive ever had a night out. I just don't socialise well and i always look like the loner in the corner and its really depressing me. I've seen questions posted like this and sorry for posting another one but i just felt i need to ask for help from you people. please give some advice to get my life starting. thank you.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 Google Avoidant Personality Disorder hun. And go from there.
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reader, saltwater +, writes (6 September 2008):
 You're right, sitting at home alone in your mid-twenties certainly isn't a great situation. Join clubs or go places that interest you. I think it is always better (and easier) to find and have friends that share your interests, rather than just "normal" friends. By joining clubs that interest you, you will meet other people whose interests are the same. Have you tried joining evening classes? Typically, people around your age join evening classes and so you have a better chance of making friends with people who are your age, as well as people who are on your wavelength; and who knows, she may even be female...Don't kid yourself that all nights out are amazing; sometimes they're just plain boring! But it's like I say, it depends on what friends you go out with....so go and find good friends to have good times with!
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reader, Beybii_Boo +, writes (6 September 2008):
 Hello.Wow My life used to be the same hun dont worry about it.best thing to do is join a club. Is there anyone u used to be friends with or are friends with. Go out clubbing down town or something. Tryy and go out with friends at work or whateeverRite Bakk 1
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