A
male
age
36-40,
*ajaram
writes:Hi.. I am 24,working as computer lecturer in an institute. I am fallen in love with my student, age 17.. as well as she started to like me at initial stage.. she likes to have friendship with me. She and I talk over the phone and sends text messages... she felt me as a good person and proposed her love to me over phone.. we discuss personal feelings on sex thru text messages and talking over phone. And she want to marry me after 6years i.e her completion of college... i asked her to have sex one day...she didnt accept that.. she told i am truly loving you.. after marriage we can enjoy a lot.. but not during any course of time..but i didnt believe her bcos she's telling me that i can meet only after she joins college... is it a true love?
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reader, smartazngirl  +, writes (17 December 2008):
 If you don't understand her reasons why you can't talk to her until after she goes to college and why she doesn't want to have sex yet, then it isn't true love. Why? Because you don't love her enough. If you can't understand her reasons, then you don't love her. I agree with hlskitten and anonymous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Fellow Aunts/Uncles,
The coincidence is too similar.It is the same guy.Good grief! I shudder to think what is the girl's real age.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-was-her-teacher-for-a-while-and.html
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Are you mad? There is a serious code of ethics issue going on here. Thankfully she stood her ground on the sex side of things.
She might be of legal age, but you have crossed the line where morals are concerned. Dont you like your job?
C xxxxxx
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reader, katatonik +, writes (7 December 2008):
 She cares about you more than you think if she wants to wait until you both won't get in trouble over this relationship. It is not appropriate for you and she to be together while you are her teacher; once she graduates, that's a different story. To wait for her or not is your choice, but in the meantime, please don't try to pressure her into sex.
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