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writes:So this guy for quite a while has been hitting on me trying to get it on etc even though he knew I found his personality completely annoying.I don't know what it is but he really irritates me.I got very drunk a few days ago and somehow ended up at his and we slept together, putting it bluntly he was amazing in bed.when he was was drunk I did not find him annoying, when we woke up the next morning I found him annoying again, so I literally jumped on him to shut him up. Is it completely wrong to carry on sleeping with him when I find him irritating even though the sex is amazing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2014): I find it a big turnoff. When someone is capable of this kind of good-sex-but-I-don't-even-like-the-person relationship it makes me go "ugh."
But it also makes me go "ugh" that you did what you already did with him the first time. Same basic reasons. So I guess it isn't really much worse for you to continue on with this guy now.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (27 May 2014):
Would you like him to enjoy you even though he finds you annoying??
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (27 May 2014):
 Do you WANT a FWB? Does he? If you both want that, then I see no problem, but... as I am not a fan of FWBs ( I think they are a waste of time).
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reader, llifton +, writes (27 May 2014):
 No, as long as you both are on the same page. As long as you both just want a fwb relationship, it sounds great.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 May 2014):
 You will have to decide if the sex is enough to override your own level of discomfort with his irritating personality.
If you have to be drunk to enjoy it and he has to be drunk to be tolerable, obviously that will limit the available hours that you two can enjoy satisfactory mutual physical encounters.
Is it wrong? I don't know what your personal right/wrong ethics are. You do.
Is it smart? Well, if you have been sexually starved for a long time and he is the one who can manage to get you there, maybe it is. Otherwise, why tolerate an irritating annoying sex pest?
It's all up to you. You are in charge of your own choices, aren't you?
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