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Is it normal to bleed the second time too?

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Question - (29 April 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so I already had sex for the first time and it hurt so bad lol...but why did the second time hurt and I bled a little my second time too.. is this normal??

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A female reader, gummybear16 South Africa +, writes (5 January 2012):

gummybear16 agony auntHey, I had sex for the first time like about two months ago. And. the second time I had sex it hurt the exactly the same as it did for the first time. Okay. And after it I felt a lot of pain and I bled for a day. I am very concerned and kind of freaked out!

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A female reader, Nikki babiiee United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2009):

yes it is normal i had the same problem and i went to the doctor who sed thats it was normal and that it could carry on for about 3-4 times after losing my verginity. i wouldnt worry to much about it unless it carries on then u sohuld get it checked out...

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

deejuliet agony auntFor me, the first several times that I had sex were rather painful, almost like the first time. Each time got less and less painful until I was finally stretched out enough to not have pain at all. Dont worry about it, but if it persists more than 4 or 5 times I would get checked out at the doctors.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009):

personally, i bled and felt a little pain the first 3 or 4 times i had sex. on the other hand, i know a girl who had hardly any bleeding at all.

it varys from person to person.

If you continue to bleed and/or feel discomfort and it worries you, seek medical advice, but a few times can be normal.

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A female reader, sheela United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

First time when a female has sex a little bleeding takes place as the virginal wall breaks. This wall is never ever build up again in the whole life time. Thats is the reason first sex is special. Sex was painful for u because u r not giving ur body enough time to get excited and lubricate itself. Foreplay is very important step before actual sex and may be thats the reason for bleeding sec time. if u want to directly jump into the actual act then at least use lubricant available in store. That will ease the pain.

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2009):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntit can vary from person to person, but if this persists or you are worried you could go and see a nurse about it

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