A
female
age
30-35,
*riaz
writes: Theres this cute guy in one of my swimming classes. I think im starting to like him, but I dont know if he likes me or is just being nice. On the day of the midterm, i forgot a pencil, and let me borrow his pen for the midterm. That proves nothing, but its the first thing i noticed with him. Another time, I was studying with my friend before class, and he came up to me and asked about what i was studying. We talked briefly before the instructor walked in. I added him on fb and he accepted. I messaged him once on fb and he replied immediately. I usually wouldnt be reading into this so much, but i think i'm starting to like him, so I want to know if everything he's doing is because hes being nice or if he may be interested. Is he interested or just being nice? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (26 January 2015):
The examples you have given sound like good manners, and a friendly guy. I wouldn't look too much into if I were you. What did he say in his message? Was he cordial and polite, or flirty and indicative of wanting "more?"
I think it would be good for you to be calm and cool and see where future conversations lead you. He is in your swimming class, so you want to be sure not to let things become awkward.
~Sy
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