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female
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30-35,
*isexual
writes:Listen, obviously I'm a bisexual and I'm scared of sex too. I've been with a girl before but I'm not sure if I can go all the way. I'm scared that I could get pregnant even with a condom, I know I shouldn't bleed because I have used a dildo and other things to masturbate but I'm still scared it will hurt, mainly because I am really tight and I can only fit like two fingers in when I'm wet. (god I love that I get wet so easy!) But my vagina just won't stretch. I'm just so scared, as well, I can only do it at my partners house because I always think that my family are going to walk in on us and they will disown me. I'm just a nervous wreck here, can anyone help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Being afraid that it will hurt can make your mind manufacture actual pain that isn't really there. It's just fear. You do need to just be with your partner and explain to them what you are afraid of. Make sure that if you tell them to stop, they will actually stop so you can be comfortable enough for things to actually just work out on their own. Right now the only thing holding you back is you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): if you can use a dildo you should be ok, the main thing is that you need to relax as being nervous will make the problem worse and just make sure that your partner is very gentle and you take your time. remember, if it really hurts then you can tell them to stop at any point. good luck! xx
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