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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello aunts and uncles. I've been with my bf for about 7 months now but for the last 3 months or so things haven't been going well for us. We often argue over trivial stuff but we make up fast too. He also thinks I'm too possessive. I admit I was and I've tried my best to be less possessive. I've stopped constantly asking him where he was or kicking up a big fuss if he went out with his good friends (most are girls) but now he thinks I'm treating him like a stranger on purpose. When he feels that things btw us aren't right, I'd ask him how he would prefer things to go but to him it means that I don't understand him. He feels that he is the only one putting in the effort for the relationship when I'm also trying. Yet he doesn't see it. I tried putting myself in his shoes but to him it also isn't enough. I'm really at a loss right now. And he actually just blurted his unhappiness out when we were having a really casual conversation. I feel really upset but after all he said I'm wondering if I even have the right to feel upset. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2011): I had an ex like him. Too much like hard work.
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