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writes:Ok, I met this guy back in July and the attraction was so strong we had sex the first night and I don't usually do this. Anyway didn't hear from him for a least a month. Now we been seeing each other a weekly basis.The sex is outstanding!! He says he really likes me but he doesn't want a serious relationship.He goes on to tell me he hasn't slept with anyone else but understands if I want to date other people I should but it would heart his feelings.So one evening I went with one of my gf to church and didn't catch his phone call until later at home. I called him and explained that I was in church with her and phone turned off, He them proceeds to tell me he thought I was on a date and really hurt his feelings.So now he backed off a little. Still says he's not seeing anyone and it hurts his feelings when I tell him I had good time when asked. I'm confused and trying to be patient he was really hurt by his ex in the past. Thinks I'm going to dump him!! What do you think?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 September 2012):
I think that you're entirely being used by this guy. He's all happy to turn up, have his way, then leave you and not want a relationship. And then suddenly, when he thinks wrongly that the possibility of having sex with you will finish because you might be seeing someone else, he decides to play you a little and make you feel confused and hurt. He even used the classic line 'I was hurt by my ex'. Never gets old, that one.
Time to wake up and look at what this guy really is - a user. And the longer you let this happen, the less chance that you'll meet a decent guy who won't treat you this way.
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