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writes:Is it ok for a man to call a woman who he says he loves a bitch? Can there be excuses? Expections? What If he's angry? Is it ok? Does that even make him a man? If u say u love a woman is that even possible to say to her face? All answers are greatly appreciates from Both genders? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): I think a man is more likely to call you a bitch if he IS IN love with you than if he isn't.
Something you did hurt him badly.
Name calling like that can ruin a relationship without a doubt.
You can't justify it. However, crazy things come out of our mouths when we are in pain, don't they?
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reader, lorinda +, writes (31 May 2011):
You bitch!....Well I know you are but what am I? It sounds a little pointless and immature. Name calling is not a real good way to show someone that you love them. We all get angry, and there will be disagreements in every relationship, but it's not OK to just go off and unleash whatever so happens to fly out of your mouth. Words can be very hurtful, and even saying your sorry doesn't erase the harm that is done...especially when they say it - or call you a bitch again! It's the same with the words "I love you"... Anyone can say that to anyone...and you can say it is just words....but it is the action... and the way that they treat you that speaks louder than the words. The word bitch really doesn't bother me...but if someone is saying they love me and then turns around to say "you bitch"....I kind of think he means he doesn't love or respect me, because if he did, he wouldn't talk to me in a disrespectful and hurtful way. You decide if it hurts and is forgivable or not, but by not leaving him for saying it...you give him permission to keep on saying it. and he probably will.
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reader, matureflowerx  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 I think people say a lot of hurtful things when they are angry.
I love my partner very much and yes I have called him names and he has called me names. I think you seem very sheltered but it is very common most people call the other names during a fight.
Also if you were acting like bitch he has the right to call you out on it and call you one.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 May 2011):
 Were you being a bitch when he called you one?
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (31 May 2011):
Darling
love and jealousy may end to commiting crimes !
so bad words isnt realy related to love
but it shows what kind of poor bringing up your bf had
Good Luck
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