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writes:I'm entering my second year of college and as it approaches, I realize it's not where I want to be. The school I'm at is only useful for one major and I don't think I want to be that major anymore.Now, I am considering a transfer....and for multiple reasons.One of the big pros to a transfer would include the guy I have been crazy about is going to school in the same city I've been considering. We never got involved because neither one of us wanted to deal with long distance starting off so fresh. Maybe if we knew each other longer, it wouldn't have been a big deal.I feel like I have my list of pros and cons of a trasnfer. And the list is bigger on the pro side for my own sake. But it also really helps knowing he'll be there too. I am afraid though, if I make the transfer and he and I don't get involved, I might feel it was a big mistake. Anyway, anyone been through this problem and know what to do? I don't want to feel like I'm following someone, because I want to follow my own dream but if knowing he might be there to support me could make the decision much easier.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 You need to switch for the educational aspects not the guy. Take him off the list and if it still weighs better to swtich then do it and make it work.
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