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anonymous
writes:I've been with this guy for 4 years, he's cheated on my in the past and that's all i worry about. he has so many chick friends, but i can't trust him and it sucks. it seems like he talks to them more then me. when we fight he just walks away and ignors me. then the next day he acts like nothing has happened. i feel like im getting used, but i dont know what to do because i love him so much. i know he cares for me and loves me because he always is there when i need him, but i just dont know what to do anymore. i kinda just want to be the main person in his life not the last person. Reply to this Question
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (2 February 2010):
 If he can't be trusted, you should be with him. You deserve better, and you will find better.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2010):
Every single sign that this guy is bad news is there. I hate to tell you this, but you're not yet seeing the signs. He's cheated before,, he's talking to other girls more than you, when you fight he just walks away and ignores you, he then acts like nothing has happened, you feel like you're being used. You don't know he cares for you, you're just hoping he does. But take it from another guy that he doesn't care about you. I know that hurts you, because I know you love him. But every sign is there that he doesn't care, and the truth is he just doesn't. He won't change, and you'll never be the most important person in his life. Time to move on, unless you want to live in misery.
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