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*rueLoveWaits2016
writes:I talked about this guy before, he actually manipulated me and got me as far as fooling around and sending pics (naughty pics). As soon as I cut that off, he lied to me big time. I feel like a fool? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 April 2017):
 You can still screenshot pictures from snapchat and save them. Not much point feeling like a fool now, just move on and don't make the same mistake again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2017): Yes in some ways you must be angry that he conned you but you outsmarted him in the end.There are people who make a career out of exploiting others and they become very accomplished about it.The pictures would have been step one of his project.Now that they are potentially in the public arena dont worry.After all so many people know how to photoshop photos to look sexier or naked that you can claim they were photoshopped!If its videoed stuff you might have to try to sue him, but above all be thankful you got away from the shark before it was too late!
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reader, TrueLoveWaits2016 +, writes (27 March 2017):
TrueLoveWaits2016 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think its a threat thing, we exchanged them over snapchat, he sent me pics as well.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  + ♥, writes (26 March 2017):
 Take this as a lesson learned and don't be so cheap in future. People tend not to value something they have obtained too easily.
Think yourself lucky that he is not blackmailing you about the pics as that is one of the current scams going on, where people are persuaded to send "naughty" pics then the person receiving them threatens to send them to family and work colleagues if they do not pay ransom money. I hope this is not what this turns out to be, otherwise that will be a completely different post.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 March 2017):
 Is he the one you had talked to for a couple of weeks top? If it is, you need to start being smarter. Much smarter.
Naughty pics are FINE in an ESTABLISHED relationship. ONE that has been going on for a GOOD while, where there is true TRUST because you know each other. Not because he asks for pics or claim he LOVESSSSS you or want to be with you forever (after a few weeks or months).
You say HE manipulated you to do things... Well, you DID join in so you NEED to take some responsibility for your own actions too. He didn't point a gun to your head did he?
All you can do now is LEARN from what happened and NOT repeat behavior that get you in hot water or that you will regret 5 minutes later.
Or you can continue to beat yourself up. (which there really is no point to)
WORDS ARE CHEAP - TALK IS CHEAP.
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