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writes: I seem to be going through various rough patches with my girlfriend mentally. One day I wake up and i totally love her and think I couldn't imagine losing her. Then other days I get irritated by her and just feel generally irritated specially when im tired. When I am tired and not in the mood she craves more attention to the point I want to tell her to go away. Is this normal in a relationship ? Is it my mood is it tiredness? I am like it with everyone but it stands out more with my girlfriend as we have more close contact. I also feel less horny when im in this mood.
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reader, NuVu  +, writes (30 July 2007):
It seems to me that your being tired might be one of the causes for your moody behaivor. If so, what can you do to rid yourself of being tired? Try to figure out what else might be causing you to be moody, and rid yourself of that too. I'm a moody person too and my gf drives me crazy when she wants more attention... but not long ago i realized that my bad mood doesn't grant me a license to be an ass. In fact i now realize that the people that i admire most are always the ones who can rise above their moods. No matter how tired they are, how depressed they are, or even how much phyical pain they are in, they ALWAYS treat me in the same warm and respectful way. They amaze me and its something i now aspire to and perhaps you should too. Good luck.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
Your probably only feeling like this because your tired and this is irritating you thats normal, you say your like this with everyone when your tired but more so because your with your girlfriend more, thats normal....
She probably craves more attention becuse she picks up negative vibes from you and this obviously up sets her, just explain taht you really tired and you don't mean to be moody....
But on the bright side when your feeling all fresh and on top of the world you just can't imagine loosing her, how sweet is that, but you really do need to let her know that she doesn't need to crave your attention you do love her loads but your tierd.....
Good luck hun,
She is a lucky girl
Love Donna xx
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